If he wants to talk, then talk, but NOT about the relationship. If he wants to talk about the relationship, then just listen to him.

If he wants nothing to do with you...don't pursue him. Keep your head up, have a smile on your face, be confident (even if you have to fake it), and 'act' like you aren't bothered by anything.

He already knows that you don't want this. You don't have to remind him anymore. Don't show unhappiness or hurt, again, even if you have to fake it.

If it were me, I would wear my wedding ring. I wouldn't say anything about it either...I'd just do it.

This DB'n is hard. We feel for you. We know the pain and the disappointment. But I believe, as hard as it is and as counter-intuitive as it is...it is the best way to go about these situations.

Stay here and learn and get support. This is a good place. Talk with others.


"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.