My MIL has a rental house that up until a few days ago was occupied by my SIL and her tribe. Once he heard that the house would be vacant, H asked MIL what she planned on doing with it. She has always had this house (its where my H and his sister grew up) and she keeps it so my SIL always has a place to land (enabler). Anyway her first response was, "I don't know." So apparently H asked if she would rent it to The Troll. Heres where I need the advice. She never said anything in return, however last week she started telling H about the house and how it has new windows, etc... and said she would rent it to them for X amount a month...she then says, "You're moving in right?"
So the advice I need is how or what do I say to this woman, who claims to be my mother, who has seen what this has done to me and my kids and still consciously CHOOSES to encourage and facilitate a "love nest" for my H and the woman who helped wreck my family?
Sorry just doesn't seem like its going to cover this one. I am mad but more importantly I am hurt and betrayed. I just really don't know what to do or say, but I don't feel like I can let it go without saying SOMETHING.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option