For what it's worth, you are in limbo at your own hand. Why don't you file for divorce and get it over with? You hang out with her and the kids as often as some married people. What are you hoping for? I can't figure it out? Y

ou, by the way, are not undesirable, and you will find someone else. You're smart, funny and have a great sense of humor. Sorry wii, I'm not hittin' on ya! I'm hopelessly heterosexual, but ENOUGH! File or reconcile!