Keep your focus on friendship, Ali, nothing more at the moment. Small steps with both x's or either. That is my small bit of advise.

BTW - do you have a dog? Ah, my 3 are wonderful snugglers! \:\)
Ok, that was a joke .... except the snuggling part.

Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)