I have DR and have read it. I still have lots of questions. Last night I read Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. My h downloaded it like I said a while ago. So obviously our ability to communicate with each other has been amiss for quite some time. The thing is that at the time I felt like it was all his fault so I didn't really pay attention and he stopped trying. Lesson learned for sure.
In looking back at a conversation we had the other day, I would like some feedback please. He said he has never finished anything and he wanted to finish this. I had told him previously while in one of our R talks that he has never finished anything in his life. He always walked away. To me it means that he feels he needs to get his diploma (done), get a job and be self sufficient (he's working on it), and become responsible for himself (still being supported by his daddy for the moment, but it will have to soon stop as his dad doesn't have much more left to give). It feels to me as if he is wanting to become someone he can be proud of. He doesn't want me to be the one making his way anymore. Am I reading this sitch right?
"It is excruciating pain. It is the pain of separation, the pain of loss, the pain of dreams and expectations unrealized. It is the loss and death of a mirage."
