Maybe Baby, the Gypsy Lied

[bluerain]

I have said it before and Ill say it again: I dont thing that its ok for anyone on here to pass judgment on someone for the actions that they feel like they have to take. This has been going on a long time for him.

Ill bet puppy has chimed in on everyone's sitch at least once and he is very capable of giving advice. Its not so easy to take your own advice. Listen up puppy, you have given us some great words to go by, now be ready to hear them again!

I hope that you can feel good about the work that you have put in, and I hope that at some point your kids can learn about the value and sacred nature of a marriage. I really feel like you have shown them that it is something worth fighting for. To a point. I always thought that I needed to feel like I had done everything I possibly could have, and I think that you are there. Im sorry.

I hope that you remember to enforce your boundaries, esp if you do go through with the roommate idea mentioned in your other thread.

Good luck man.