Gosh, Pup, hope you don't mine me saying this but alot of the post on these last two threads seem to be so much more pro divorce than pro DB. And correct me if I'm wrong but I truly feel that you believe in marriage and support DB. I understand that you have made the decision to end it, but as someone who crazy enough would still want her marriage, I can't help but read some of the posts on this thread and feel like people are saying that D is inevitable and great and you're doing the right thing by moving on. Don't get me wrong, I do think that its great that you have decided that you need to do this for you. But I miss the DB, saving marriage sentiment that I usually get from this site. IMHO.