It's all ablazin'....

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Last night H came over and I did exactly what you just said not to do, ST. I tried to be very diplomatic and the first time I said what I wanted he disagreed and continued to disagree with everything after that, even when it made no sense. He refuses to take her crib out of OW's boys' room, he refuses to turn the car seat around rear facing, he says that what happens in his home is his business, he'll raise her how he sees fit. Which means, he'll mess her up if he raises her to be anything like him. It was hard and I am upset, but my Mom said that I need to flatter and let him believe he is in control because that is what this is about...CONTROL.