oh, and when I say OW has some right, I mean in cases where he is gone or something. somethings she will be able to wait for H, but somethings she really shouldn't. Like children fighting over a toy and not stopping...then a good way is a time out for both children. but, most of the time, she really shouldn't...IF he is there most of the time.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
