Just got an e-mail... She's staying home from work today. She's tired and stressed and just wants "me time." I can understand that. Starting to think I need to slow down with the hugging. But I don't know... Let me bounce something else off of you. She has gained weight and is not comfortable with herself. She is self-conscious about her body. If she can't love herself, then how is that contributing to this? How do I assure her that I love her no matter what, while at the same time keeping my distance?