It's Complicated! Part 5

[glamgirl]

Thanks Snodderly and Peace. I feel liberated in a lot of ways. I was thinking while I was out shopping what am I doing? Why am I putting up with his bad behavior? It feels good to set some boundaries.

The first was the taxes. Look I gave him every opportunity to make an appearance or to at least communicate what our plans should be since he did not show on Tuesday. I informed him I would be filing separately if I did not hear from him. He choose to ignore any and all communication. He may have been in a sleep coma, but then that is NOT my problem. I have to worry about me and the kids and nobody else.

You are right Snodderly, what was he thinking taking 4 sleeping pills. The dose is 1. He has always gone overboard on the dose and doesn't seem to get that, it can be harmful to his body. I am into the more natural way and very rarely take any kind of medication other than vitamins and herbs.

I do feel good though. Yes I am still sad we are in this place almost 3 years later, but I can no longer be stuck. I was praying and asking God what to do and the answer seems to be get busy and have fun.

I am going to break out my inline skates this weekend. I haven't been on them in over 10 years when I used to skate the beaches in CA. Today the kids and I will look for skates for them and we are going to have some fun!

I also have bowling, the gym and movies on the agenda too this weekend with the kids. Life is meant to live not spending time being mad at others and sulking because you have all these problems.

Peace thanks for your post. I appreciate the encouragement. It seems h and I have come a long way and now back to this.