Ex showed up at the house at about 4 p.m. I was at work, the 2 girls were home.
He did not get out of his car.
After about 15 minutes my daughter went outside and said, "Dad, what the heck are you doing."
He said, "I've been waiting for your for 15 minutes, come on it is time to go".
My daughter said, "you never called and told me you were going to pick me up, you never come this early".
He said, "OH, just forget it" and left.
My daughter said it was real weird.
She said he was so confused and spacey.
Last edited by TRUSTING; 04/16/0902:47 AM.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
I was reading an article about affairs today. It was very interesting. They had polled men and women who had affairs and asked them how the sex was with their OW/OM.
95 PERCENT SAID THE SEX WAS TERRIBLE.
They said there was so much guilt between them and their partner that neither could relax enough to enjoy what was going on.
Also, many of the men stated that after a while they experienced severe erectile dysfunction.
I thought this tidbit would make everyone's day.......
Last edited by TRUSTING; 04/16/0902:52 AM.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
T- won't it be a great day when we can look in the mirror and say... I made it. God gave me strength and I really AM better today then I was even with X. (EVEN if we are WITH them...) does that make sense?
I feel change within me... it is wierd. Just new strength and self confidence that wasn't there before. Just wierd.
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again
Trusting your h does some weird things. It seems as if he doesn't know what direction to take his life. Maybe he was doing a drive by without intentionally coming by that early and then your D came out to the car, so he had to say something.
I don't know how early he was, but I thought it was your h that used to drive around the neighborhood in the past. Maybe again he was reflecting on what he has lost.
Sheer Madness!
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
Still working out and working on getting my body fat lower than ever. It is a challenge, but swimsuit season approaches.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Yes that was my ex, always driving around the neighborhood looking at things, very weird.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
