Antlers,
Thanks for your support! She has said forever though... She has said that she does not think she will ever get it back. She told me in front of the therapist that she doesn't love me and it won't come back. Now she is talking about taking time and baby steps. Which one is it? Or is it both? She mentioned that she needs to work on stuff. If that involves trying to love me again, I'm afraid in will end in futility. When someone has reached a point where they "aren't in love" how do they ever find their way back? She doesn't know and I don't know.