A New Decade

[MsMelancoly]

Hey Julia, Thanx for your opinions. My theory on lending money is, when I lend money, I don't expect it back. Hence, I rarely loan anyone money. I helped my H out by giving money, he is helping me out by replacing the break pads on my car. What value should he put on that? I have the tangible money, he has the tangible skill. I hate thinking that way so "money" oriented. Then I think we are still M & there is still a possibility I could be given some of his debt. Being M, he could have asked for half the rent income I get - but never has. So he isn't a greedy b*stard. Yes, I'm doing a lot of justifying here ..... why I don't know ...... Could I just be being taken advantage of or used - yes could be. But, at least my head isn't stuck in the sand about it.

Again, an issue where your head, your mind says one thing & your heart says another ........ which to choose?