Hey Julia.. you sound good, as usual! I thikn I must have missed a bit, as you keep talking about a breakthrough but then you say you are meeting to talk about the D papers on Monday? (or is that house solicitor papers??).

When I told Jody that my ex told BMF that he doesnt know why he left, she said, hmm.. thats not good, he wont come back until he figures out why he left. I didnt ask her any more about that, but it still annoys me that not only he, but I dont know why he left. I make the assumption he left because of meeting ow and that put doubts in his mind about our commitment. Perhaps its the same for your H? I was reading that Stonsy book and I am sure it said in there, as I have read elsewhere that men rarely leave unless they have something to go to.. in other words, someone else in mind.

Its great you are getting to see him though, wouldnt it be awful if it was acrimonious?