Thanks for the comments. I really wish I had never signed up for this, as I do not like the public feature aspect. I agree that I should watch the addictive nature of this beast.
Me: 48 Ex-W: 45 M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93 Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06 OM Separated: mid-Feb '07 Divorced mid-July '08 One daughter - 28 XW living w/OM