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Facebook is commonly a 'passing fancy' for many, adding a bunch of information and photos at once then maybe or maybe not continuing to do so.
A friend of mine said the same thing. His wife was very active at first, but not so much after a while. Judging from my ex-w's site, she has been very active.

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My only caution to you is to note that "WALL" postings are public to your network of friends and is not a private message to an individual as many have believed.
I found that out, and that is one reason I really do not like the site.

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Also, given the OM, you would not likely have been invited to be a friend with your x-W if OM had such an account.
I know, this has me scratching my head. Why would she want me to have access to her site????

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Finally, it is an easy habit to frequently 'check' on people you have a heightened interest in to see what comments they've made, what friends they have, and what photos they've posted. Be careful not to create a negative habit in checking... it doesn't serve you well.
I can see where that would be the case, and I agree with you that I can not get too caught up in this site.

Thanks for your insight.


Me: 48
Ex-W: 45
M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93
Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06
OM
Separated: mid-Feb '07
Divorced mid-July '08
One daughter - 28
XW living w/OM