Hi Mockers! You sound great- last I checked you were waiting for your H to return and he was stalling! I always thought your H was going through the same thing my is. You are really handling things well and shaking it up a bit is a wonderful addition- I saw some beautiful velvet lingerie at banana republic today- chek it out!! I am also impressed by how well you have taken care of your babies. When things fall apart in my life, it affects everything it seems. Have a great day and get that date scheduled!! Shay