Still here... (#61)

[kat727]

I think it is good that you know how important it is to love yourself. After all we have gone through it is so easy to not think much of ourselves. I also know that you can't change someone. It can't be I really like/love this person but they have to change before I give them a chance. It is your choice, take them as they are or not.

However while a relationship grows, people do have issues that crop up and those need to come to a resolution at some point. That is concern for the other person that makes those changes happen.

Hang in there. Kat