Thanks everyone I WILL NOT be calling, texting or emailing. Snodderly I may have a double dip cone.lol
AmyC, you said to list the negatives so I didnt list the good things. I will, in his defense, and I dont know why, but, I will say that he was a great lover....well from what I have known in the last 20 years. Kept me happy anyway. We had no problem in that area ever. He will tell you that. We also had laughter. He helped around the house ALOT. He always cleaned the bathrooms, which I hate. He did the upkeep on the house and so forth. Here I will weigh them out.
Good Sex Provider Helped Around House Alot Laughter-When in Good Mood
Bad Lier, stretched truth Distrust because of lying Attitude Cocky, Knows everything Respect-less during the end Respect-for others could improve No Emotion No Compassion-suck it up and get over it already. Did NOT care what others thought!
Sad isnt it. Towards the end all these things worsened. He even told me after my mothers funeral that he didnt want me mopping around the house for a week, that he knew I would do this. WELL YEA.
When you live this way for over 20 years, you kinda adjust to things and you think its normal. My sister-in-law told me this long ago. People always talked behind his back about his attitude and cockiness (if that a word), I always defended him, but I did get to see the best side of him and they didnt.
You are right. You do adjust to dysfunction and even make excuses for it. Problem is, that only makes it that much worse.
Look, you did what you could with the tools and understanding that you had back then but this is new time.
Like a new day dawning.
You are going to learn so much and life is going to just bust wide open for you if you will let it.
