Now tell me...isn't that great? Hang in there and stay committed and don't give up and try not to despair. We all know how much this hurts, and we are familiar with all of the other emotions that are involved with these things. I don't believe that God wants you to be divorced. Remember, it only takes one person to change a relationship...even if your wife doesn't! If you change, and I mean really change for the better, then the relationship can't help but change. It has to! That's the dynamics of it.