Very interesting discussion..point of views.....good food for thought. I agree with FB2 on being more decisive. I see alot of limbo around. However, it is easy to be a monday morning quarterback. I look or read some sitches and hold back on my comments....however I remember I was not as decisive as i should have been. When we went to piecing I jumped in right away...in retrospect I should have waited like K is doing. As far as open wounds are concerned...I just tend to shake my head incredulously when i hear stories....i have lost my innocence....i used to thin everyone was good....but i have seen alot of selfishness first hand and on these boards. I remain confident however, that there are good people all around us and it is a question of timing and opening our eyes and hearts. Happy easter K...