I have to admit, you have me confused on the temperture checks. Are you asking him questions or does he volunteer this stuff?
From the outside looking in, this all looks really positive. The baby talk seems to indicate that he is visioning a future as a family, a larger one! Though I completely understand your fears there, about not trying yet. Just enjoy your time right now.
Are you guys doing couple things together, without the kids? I think one of the biggest mistakes my H and I made was putting the kids completely first. Before us. Almost always. Have you had a date since he has been back?
Are you doing your missions from Flylady? Getting rid of the yucky underwear and buying only fun, frivilous stuff? Go shopping, if you haven't, and flirt with him tonight. Do some things to surprise him (and maybe you?)
