The counsel that I received (and boy do I wish I would have received it earlier) was to split the finances asap. Let her have the responsibility of managing her own money right now, before the D comes. By continuing to handle the daily finances, you are shielding her from that responsibility.
That is exactly my dilemna. But my problem is that we are maintaining one residence. I spend alternate nights with family and she does the same. She has no income. So bascially I pay the household bills, credit cards bills etc. I'm not sure what splitting up financially would mean. In her defense she has waived any claim to interim alimony/cs payments. I don't know how to shift any of this obligation to her right now.
