He's have a temper tantrum....don't buy into it. Continue moving along as you have been. He knows he screwed up on the issue of the tax filing and he's a bit angry w/himself.

Also, why should you be stocking your house w/food that he likes? He needs to learn that when in your home, you eat what is there. If he wants junk food, he can very well eat at home or bring it w/him. You are not responsible for his meals or snacks.

Glam, he's finding out the hard way (now) that you are not going to baby him and be his mother. He's relied on you for so much that it's very hard for him to understand that you are not going to sit around and wait on him to wake up, come over, do the right thing. He's got to grow up. As for his depression....he needs to do something about that, but again, that's not your problem....you are not his mother, you are his wife who is there to listen and offer support right now.

Enjoy your day! He'll get over it.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.