If this is your Ws decision to D, then let her deal with it. This is what loving detachment means. She is a big girl, she will figure it out.
Sorry I wasn't clear. We are not at all financially split at this point. I am currently paying all the bills. We are putting our house on the market in a couple of weeks, but we decided until the divorce that financially we would continue as if we were married. She is very good about not spending money, so I'm nto worried about that. Just wondering if I need to find a way to involve her in the finances in the short terms or if I should just lay low.
Thanks very much for the answers on the other questions. They seem very astute.
