Thanks everyone I WILL NOT be calling, texting or emailing.
Snodderly I may have a double dip cone.lol

AmyC, you said to list the negatives so I didnt list the good things. I will, in his defense, and I dont know why, but, I will say that he was a great lover....well from what I have known in the last 20 years. Kept me happy anyway. We had no problem in that area ever. He will tell you that.
We also had laughter. He helped around the house ALOT. He always cleaned the bathrooms, which I hate. He did the upkeep on the house and so forth. Here I will weigh them out.

Good
Sex
Provider
Helped Around House Alot
Laughter-When in Good Mood



Bad
Lier, stretched truth
Distrust because of lying
Attitude
Cocky, Knows everything
Respect-less during the end
Respect-for others could improve
No Emotion
No Compassion-suck it up
and get over it already.
Did NOT care what others thought!



Sad isnt it.
Towards the end all these things worsened. He even told me after
my mothers funeral that he didnt want me mopping around the house for a week, that he knew I would do this. WELL YEA.

When you live this way for over 20 years, you kinda adjust to things and you think its normal. My sister-in-law told me this long ago. People always talked behind his back about his attitude and cockiness (if that a word), I always defended him, but I did get to see the best side of him and they didnt.

Last edited by sunshinelewis; 04/17/09 12:52 PM.

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M:42
H:40
S:18
M:20yrs/together 21yrs
Bomb:9/08 ILYBNILWY
Sep:9/18/08 "ow" :25
Filed:11/18/08
D:12/8/08
M:Different 26 yr. old 7/09.
Newborn 4/10