thanks antlers i was begining to think it was me and not her selfish behaviour, funny how they make you feel like that, like they have some super power or something.
another thing thats popped in my head was when we spoke last saturday she said to me when i was leaving you i thought he dosent beleive i will leave, beacuse ive threatened him a few times and never seen it through, it was like she was trying to tell me right i will show him im out of here this time, like she is standing her ground. o the joys of marriage, lol
