That is why it is so hard to detach from W, because it feels like I am giving up on her. It angers me, it saddens me, and it literally makes me sick to think about it. I hate this.
You got it wrong song. Your WIFE is giving up on YOU. Not vice versa. Again, I preach to you that you continue to play the game of Twister...with two hands on your faith and two feet on reality. I post a quote from my guru:
Quote:
A man should hold onto his vows as long as he has evidence of the foundation for a marriage. Period. He should know that it takes love and all the things born of love (friendship, loyalty, trust, respect, etc) and attraction (fun, adventure, sex, etc) to make a marriage, and that since attraction can be had independent of love and vice versa, that he needs to watch out for attraction making him think that he or she is feeling love, or that love is making him think there is attraction (the emotional rush of love leads to emotional sex that is not attraction-driven and while enjoyable, does not quell the adventure lust that most people have and fail to acknowledge).
Just something to read and digest.
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
