Hey Kat.. I know I keep going on about Venus retrograde and everything and yes, it affects us all, certainly internally, with affecting our feelings.. BUT.. it may not affect you noticeably (as in externally) unless.. it contacts one of the personal planets in your chart (Sun, Moon, Venus, etc).

For my ex.. he is in an exact Pluto-Venus transit right now. Pluto is squaring his Pluto-Venus and Venus in the sky was, last week, sqaured to pluto and therefore, opposite his own Venus and Pluto.. so this is a huge pattern affecting his relationships (Venus is about how we 'relate' to others) and as I am one of his significant others (as he told BMF W he loves me).. then I can see things happening with me and him along this timeline. So its more dramatic for him and therefore, for me. For me.. I am having dramatic changes, because Uranus is on my Sun and Mercury right now.. and Venus and Mars are coming up to conjunct Uranus next week with the Moon.. so I am expecting something to happen...

The Piscean just texted me.. so say that he was dreaming about me, that I was a crazy amazing woman, that kind of thing. I feel sad about it.. I've opened a can of worms there, but how was I to know as he said "I never got over you".. I didnt expect all of this. Now I feel awkward about it, as I dont know how I feel, I dont want to upset him, or hurt him and yet we've had barely any contact for 12 years! I need to think about it..So Kat.. he knows how he feels and what he wants and Venus Retrograde in Pisces literally bought a past Piscean love back to him, but I dont feel as strongly as he does about it. So, it can be like that.

but...no reply yet from my ex after I texted him back yesterday (I also signed 'me' for the first time in 8 months). Gosh I miss him more, after so much contact lately and seeing him 3 times in 10 days.