My divorce papers come through in six weeks after my wife dropped the bomb at Christmas. I am now living in a friends house and missing her and D11 and S7. It is all happening so quickly, I cannot believe after 15 years our R ends completely after 6 months of heartache and hell.
I, like you will continue to wear my wedding ring after our divorce. I have not discussed this with anybody but I want to continue to show what marriage represents to me (a life long commitment). I know people would say she will treat you like a doormat as she knows how you feel and will always use you like a safety net if anything happens in the future, but I cannot and will not just give up.
As long and tough as it is going to be, I will continue to try and show her I have made permanent changes and hope one day we will be back together and hopefully re-marry. I still have roughly six weeks before the papers come and I will continue to GAL, PMA etc, which is hard, but whatever happens we must remain strong and continue to do the right thing.
I will be thinking of what you are going through now and please be assured everyone iss right behind you.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
