Guys I need your opinions on this, (even though I think I already know the answer).
Today is my xh's birthday. This will be the first in 21 or so years that I haven't shared with him. Yea, it's depressing.
My question is, should I send him a text saying HAPPY BIRTHDAY or should I not let him know I am thinking about him on his birthday? I say text because he doesnt answer if I call, and I dont think I would anyway. It's been awhile since I talked to him.

"You know you are getting better when you stop counting the days"
This is my new quote.


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M:42
H:40
S:18
M:20yrs/together 21yrs
Bomb:9/08 ILYBNILWY
Sep:9/18/08 "ow" :25
Filed:11/18/08
D:12/8/08
M:Different 26 yr. old 7/09.
Newborn 4/10