I guess it is a natural reaction to everything seeming so out of control.
Right on. During my months away, I had a session with an excellent C. She told me that being controlling is situational and arises from a threat to your own moral order. It was comforting to me to be reminded that it's the situation, not the person. He pulled back, you tried to pull him closer. You were trying to return it back to an equilibrium.
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