Thank you, Lee. I actually thought of you yesterday when this came up. I thought I remembered you mentioning this.

I asked my H a while back, when he first brought up the subject, if he thought he would be happy if we decided to/weren't able to have another baby. He said yes. I also asked him, I think, if he thought he wanted to have another child to keep our minds off things (kind of a round about way of asking him), and he said no. He keeps bringing up the fact that we'll be 70 when they're 30, etc. Keeps reminding me that he'll be 40 in two years. (This makes me worry about another MLC .) Part of my delimma is whether or not to voice my concerns to him. I don't like feeling like I have to weigh and measure everything I say and do so carefully.

Hope you and your family are doing well. Thank you for visiting me. Take care ~

Mockers2 "Somehow we survive, and tenderness frustrated does not wither." Dennis Brutus, South African poet "That which does not kill us makes us stronger." Friedrich Nietzsche