I guess I'd like to see my W hit bottom...then see what happens. Not sure what I would do knowing what I know now, but I'd like to see her get a little of her own medicine. Not sure if thats totally revenge or just a little piece of my heart talking.
Understandable reaction, but I wish nothing for the best for my W who is in an active A. You have to let go of letting other people control how you feel.
Choose to feel compassion.
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."
