as I suspected, I feel better today. Just gotta keep on going... enuf with the self-pity and poor me attitude. Explained to my D tonight that stepdad found room to rent, and moved more things out. She's very angry. His been unresponsive to her text msgs. I noticed he took his wall of ski photos, etc. but left anything with me or the kids in the photos. What message is he trying to send? I cleared the rest off before the kids came home so they wouldn't see that.
FIL has been emailing with me but staying fairly neutral. Understands H needed a change but sad that it's impacted so many.
So my question is, do I let FIL I'm not giving up, just giving H his space.. and getting on with my life; or do I need to convey that we're moving on and not talk about how I still love H and hope he can work thru his stuff. I suspect it's the first theory, but any input would be appreciated.