[quote=Duly Noted] What is tricky is that she says I never loved her. That I just don't want to be divorced. I worry about acting non-chalant in that it will feed into her belief that I never loved her anyway and give her confidence that she is going down the right road.
From what I have read so far this is where talking to her while looking her in the eyes comes in. Keep in mind I am hurting and reading everything I can also so there might be better answers out there for this. I think if I show her I respect her then she will begin to feel the love I have for her also.
Me - 32 Wife - 30 No kids She left 4/1/09 - Left for another man Filed 4/13/09 - Served 4/18/09
