hi guys just took my daughter back to her mum, had her over for tea and stuff, she reveald something to me, she said her mum told her that people do get back together so dont worry, just look at you grand parents they broke up 25 yrs ago for 12 months and they got back together, i wasnt really that happy about this beacuse it could be sending out the wrong message to her, she is only 10 and my wife could be giving her false hope, she seemed very excited when she was telling me, i didnt respond much to it, didnt know what to say for the best,i think its really cruel if she is setting her up for a downfall, she will hold on to this thought now, and if my wife thinks she will forget about it, well she wont. kids remember things and she will surley remember this,
people say that you should listen to your wife very carefully when she speaks and log every word, so we have spoken twice,once on saturday and once on sunday.
i logged most things but some i cant make sense of, like. i love you as a person,
i dont think i could live in that house,
if you do detatch from me, remember its not always the right thing to do, follow your heart. but its fine if you do, then she cried.
dont think anyone can handle me,
i dont think your love for me is has intense has you think it is,
maybe were just not meant to live together,
its to early to do things together, but yet everytime she needs support she phones me, if she is upset she phones, if she is angry about someone or something she phones, if she is in a good mood she bombardes me with texts, not about us just stuff, like she could send 20 in one night,
she said some wierd stuff, not dwelling on them just cant make no sense of a lot of things she says, speak soon i hope keep posting,