As I have read, you still have a chance if they haven't remarried. I am new, but thought I would throw that out there.
I am sorry that it came to this. I am sure that you are feeling quite sad. *hugs*
As for your wedding ring, that is your decision alone to make. Do not feel pressure from anyone else because it is about what you need and how you feel. I am kind of sad that I gave my ring back to my H. I did so out of anger and spite. It was his grandmother's and she sent it to him as a request by his mother. It was so special to me. I became allergic to it after my brain surgery and couldn't wear it for quite some time. I had just recently started being able to wear it again. I miss it and what it represented to me. I also gave it back as it was a family piece of jewelry. I didn't feel right keeping it. *sigh* I want him to put it back on my finger!
You will feel better in time. Who is to say how long that will take, but it will happen. I wish you peace in your heart and the ability to be the best you that you can be to help ease your sorrow.
"It is excruciating pain. It is the pain of separation, the pain of loss, the pain of dreams and expectations unrealized. It is the loss and death of a mirage."
