That's pretty interesting to find out from OMW that her H's faults are similar to yours. But remember, some of us guys do pretty stereotypical things that get on womens nerves - ie. not asking directions, leaving the seat up, etc...

She does need to eventually confront if she wants the A to end quicker. Right now her H is leading a double life and the excitement is keeping it going.

This lady sums it up well from MWD and glass...

http://symcinc.com/getinformed/articles/endingaffair.html

Grab some popcorn or nachos and sit back and observe the soap opera. Dont get youself back on the roller coaster though.