OK guys my son just came in and told me in detail he, xh and ow and her family are going shopping tomorrow and out to eat for xh's birthday. It hurts me to hear these things. I didnt say much, just what time are you going. My son is adjusting good. He seems to like ow and her family. It hurts though. I would be so much better off not knowing all these things though. I want to know where son is if he is not going to be home. BUT he goes into detail about it. I know he doesnt understand how this hurts me. I just wish he could have said something like "I am going with dad tomorrow for his birthday". I am being over sensitive. Tell me what to do. I can talk to son about this, but I dont think he will listen. He probably thinks I am being silly.