So DD's big prom and graduation. I hate when the H's act like they participate in their activities. They think if they pay for it -- oh well it is ok.
Actually, this time I'm paid for everything. Yes, he would have done it, but I just wanted to do it for my baby.
As for the graduation...ask DD what she would like to do as far as dinner. She might want the other side there but let her be part of the decision making.
Yes, I need to do that, but I know her, she will say it doesn't matter to me. H's family has had very little to do with our daughters since our separation. As a matter of fact they have not been invited to holiday celebrations for the past two years. They did show up for DD's homecoming ceremonies, but I wonder if it was because H (their son) was escorting her. DD has been on the HS stepper team all three years. In-laws did not come one time to see her dance. Believe me there were plenty of oppurtunities since she danced at football and basketball games.
Speaking of decision making, how are you doing thinking about the big D and what to do with H. I have not heard anything new with my D. Hate this stuff.
I'm putting it on the backburner right now with all of DD's stuff going on. Looks like I will have to be the one to file. I told him to, but I've yet to receive any papers.
So glad you decorated. That is a good sign mentally and spiritually. Taking out the old and bringing in the new, moving forward. Me thinks I have to redecorate my WHOLE house. Lol It does wonders for you, go for it!
Keep in touch. Remember you have a vacation place to run away too if you want!
That would be nice!!!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
