Letting the shoreline go

[holdingon]

Mockers,
Why wouldn't it be okay to tell your D that when she says that it hurts mommy's feelings? That you know she loves her daddy, but she needs to be nice to you, too?

I think I would continue to act as if. If you are not comfortable being emotional yet, come here or cry outside or take a walk. I know how hard it is to not feel comfortable in your own home, and to feel you need to hide your true feelings. But, right now, I would play it safe.
Vent here or privately.

Take care of yourself.