Clueless... I right there witcha... We have been going through ups and downs, but I was either too stubborn or too stupid to makethe necessary changes. She gave me several chances, but I didn't act. Now she tells me she doesn't love me anymore and wants out. This has been relatively recent (last weekend) and I find it very difficult to not ask for forgiveness, tell her I'll change, tell her I love her, cry, reason, etc. etc... I have received this advice too. I plan on starting to work on myself. We are still living under the same roof and she has no specific plans for a divorce, house sale, etc., so maybe there's a chance...
