First of all my point to you about posting the information about your Ex-Husband's fiancee on MySpace is totally tacky, and shows that you haven't learned anything from anyone here.
You are obsessed with her, or else you wouldn't behave in this manner. Again Renee, I am sorry you found yourself in this situation, it sucks.
There are some here that are bitter because their Spouses left them. These are the ones who will rally around you and feed into your behavior, and encourage you to act this way by bashing your EX and his girlfriend.
There are others here who have learned how to let their Spouses go, and actually forgive them and pray for them.....and ultimately they move forward in their life.
You are no different then anyone else here.
We were all left behind spouses.
Almost every single poster here got the shaft from their Spouse too.
Some in even worse situations then you.
But..you do not read any of the advice offered to you on your thread. The reason I know this is because you are spinning in circles and you keep repeating yourself, over and over.
You ask why I get so upset.....Perhaps it is because it is frustrating for me to see you acting out and doing foolish things that only push your EX further and further away from you.
It doesn't have to be this way.
As I have already told you on numerous occasions, I made every mistake in the DB-book and had to learn the hard way. Yes, people were patient with me but I also got my share of 2X4's.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
