Puppy, I think you do indeed have the worse behind you. Not much else can hurt you as bad as finding out and enduring infidelity. You are not in a situation where you are going to be one of those dads that only gets the kids every other weekend.
Guys typically recover financially fairly well following a divorce. Since your marriage is of a much longer duration, you may not come out as rosey as I did, however, 5 years from now you will be doing just great (unless the Mayan end of the world forecast occurs on Dec 21, 2012).
