Ok guys i have a question for you all. As you know my husband left me for OW and has even left to bring here back to live with him. I have a question to pose here. Would you consider this a midlife crisis or something else? I know that I had my faults but I think it is odd that he said he needed space cause he wasnt getting it at home and now hes putting himself into yet the same situation which he left. Sure this OW is seeing his good side that anyone starts doing when dating, but why abandon your family to only take on another one similar to your own? Maybe hes afraid of commitment?! Im trying not to spend too much time dweling on this subject but it just baffles me. I would love to hear what everyone here thinks. He told me he wants a divorce but yet hasnt even begun the process? HMMM?