Hey guys... yes she explained to me that WAW are often angry and bitter and have done alot of processing BEFORE they leave.. whereas WAH are the opposite.. they do a knee jerk to get away from their feelings of inadequacy and THEN they do the processing once they are gone.. this is why it is harder, she said, to win back a WAW than a WAH, because by the time a WAW has resolved to leave, it is often too late. I will find my notes and post some more about it. I dont think all breakups are WA's though.. I wasnt when I left my ex at 27.. I just wasnt in love with him anymore and he wasnt my destiny. I guess that happens too, sadly.
