I'd be grateful if anyone could give me some help/advice with my situation.
My wife decided to move out after one year of marriage as we were falling out on a fairly regular basis. We wen't to counselling for a couple of sessions but she decided that it wasn't for her. We've now been legally separated for around 9 months and on the whole it's been amicable.
We've had no contact whatsoever for the past 4 months and I was just managing to get back to some sense of normality when my wife turned up on my doorstep the other day. We had a nice chat for a couple of hours and have had a little contact since. My wife has told me that she misses the sames things about our relationship as I do but thinks maybe too much water has passed under the bridge so to speak.
I know from reading Michelle's book that it would be wrong for me to get excited and think things were getting back on track, which could scare my wife off. At the same time, I feel I can't sit back and do nothing!! I do genuinely feel that my wife misses me as she says but am unsure as to her intentions re our marriage.
