PM (((hugs))) so glad your parents are coming out. The distraction and support will be good for you. Like you I am here alone with D15 and it is tough, your kids will be thrilled and it will keep them busy.
My mom and D28 are coming in May for a visit. Like your Mom, she does not want to see H and I don't know how that will play out. She can be one tough bird but it is her right and they feel they have to support us.
Your H is still in that darn fog. I hope it does not clear when it is too late. Also glad you are being proactive and thinking about your needs also.
Keep your chin up and post here.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09